Stories of teen dating violence
Logan Cook | The Daily Wildcat Staff from Voices Against Violence set up the wear purple photo booth at the Paint Pima Purple event Thursday, Oct. October is domestic violence awareness month and is associated with the color purple inspired by the women’s suffrage movement in the early 1900s whose colors were purple, white and gold.
Brittany is a UA student who studies English literature and creative writing. She is a mother and a survivor of domestic violence.
“I saw this boy dancing and thought he was very cute and we spent the whole night just dancing with each other.” Soon, she was hooked.
“It was perfect, you know started as a relationship that you see in the movies,” she recalled.
Most of these stories are from women in heterosexual relationships, but some are from women in lesbian relationships, and some are from men in heterosexual relationships.
She said she was married to her ex-husband for 10 years and he became physically, verbally and sexually abusive after the couple's third daughter was born.Since her divorce, she has dated people, but has again experienced domestic violence.“He would say things like, ‘Maybe if you lost a little more weight, I’d be willing to take you out more often,’” she said.That quickly changed, with the boyfriend not wanting her to hang out with her friends or to participate in any extracurricular activities. He even started to drive a wedge between the girl and her parents.“I started to kind of question why I couldn’t have guy friends or why he always needed to know what I was doing and it would turn into little verbal abusive spats and then it got physical.” KCBS’ Jeffrey Schaub Reports: Her life changed forever one night, at a party.